Scrolling through Whatsapp status, I witnessed a new campaign on a friend's status. She is an advocate of saggy breast. Saggy breast simply refers to fallen breast. Don't be ashamed if you have a saggy breast.
The human body undergoes changes, therefore, we need to understand and discard these misconceptions about saggy boobs that makes others have low self-esteem.
BEGINNING OF CONVERSATION
Abugre(Scrolling through her status, I ask a question): Tell me more about the saggy boobs.
Pardikie: Its a movement by the author of what a time to be alone -Chidera Eggerue
On instagram as theslumflower. I like how bold she is in going against the status quo and representing women who have saggy boobs.
She wants to normalize it,and I want to as well. I used to have a low self-esteem because after losing so much weight my boobs became saggy.
And it seems so petty an issue but it drained my self-esteem. Because even family members made it seem like u are not normal. Till I worked on my self and became this confident😉.
Abugre (shy and anxious): Did you have a standing breast ?
Pardikie (laughed): Lol ...Oh yes when I was very young, but then I started gaining weight and being on and off, gaining and losing weight and it made my skin loose and saggy, especially the breasts area.
Abugre: Why do you refer to your breast as saggy?
Pardikie: No, its a dictionary word.
There's perky for standing breasts
And saggy for fallen breasts.
I actually got to know about this movement from the slumflower on Instagram.... and I'm planning on creating some awareness in my own small circles.
Abugre: Interesting.
Pardikie: So I'm preparing an article on that.
Abugre: Boobs are part of a woman and they play a critical role in her life.
Pardikie: Definitely
Abugre: Which group of people made you feel bad about your boobs? Men or Women?
Pardikie: Well in S.H.S I couldn't bath with the girls in the open bath house because they will pass silly comments and it was annoying because I saw their imperfections as well but I didn't think it was abnormal.
Abugre : So what has been the misconception about saggy breast ?
Pardikie: Oh most people say that for a young girl to have saggy boobs then she must have been promiscuous.
Abugre: So sad.
Pardikie: Lol.
Abugre: Did you try to do anything to get a perky breast?
Pardikie: Lol not to alter it with surgery or anything besides I can't afford surgery.
However, I tried natural remedies like carrot, cucumber and Shea butter which helps the skin but it doesn't guarantee it becoming perky.
Abugre: Will you have opted for surgery if you had the money ? What happens to the skin?
Pardikie: Never honestly, before, I would give that a second thought if I had the money but for now... I've grown so much in my thinking that I know surgery doesn't solve low self-esteem issues because it is deep rooted in our minds and perception. After the surgery then what? Will you alter ur butt as well ? Then what ? Your nose ?
Oh no, I want to be the lady who was confident and different.
I owe me now to God, my mum and the slumflower for letting me know that I can be everything I want to be, no matter what the world says. That's how people make history.
Abugre: I'm grateful for sharing your story with me.
Pardikie: Lol sure❤ grateful for listening to me as well.
Abugre: Do you have friends who have saggy breast?
Pardikie: No I don't.
Abugre: Alright.
THE END.
What are your thoughts about saggy breast?
Click on the link below to learn more about saggy breast.
https://www.health.com/beauty/how-to-lift-saggy-breasts
The human body undergoes changes, therefore, we need to understand and discard these misconceptions about saggy boobs that makes others have low self-esteem.
Read this conversation I had with one of your ancestors on the issue of fallen breast. So this is how it started .....
BEGINNING OF CONVERSATION
Abugre(Scrolling through her status, I ask a question): Tell me more about the saggy boobs.
Pardikie: Its a movement by the author of what a time to be alone -Chidera Eggerue
On instagram as theslumflower. I like how bold she is in going against the status quo and representing women who have saggy boobs.
She wants to normalize it,and I want to as well. I used to have a low self-esteem because after losing so much weight my boobs became saggy.
And it seems so petty an issue but it drained my self-esteem. Because even family members made it seem like u are not normal. Till I worked on my self and became this confident😉.
Abugre (shy and anxious): Did you have a standing breast ?
Pardikie (laughed): Lol ...Oh yes when I was very young, but then I started gaining weight and being on and off, gaining and losing weight and it made my skin loose and saggy, especially the breasts area.
Abugre: Why do you refer to your breast as saggy?
Pardikie: No, its a dictionary word.
There's perky for standing breasts
And saggy for fallen breasts.
I actually got to know about this movement from the slumflower on Instagram.... and I'm planning on creating some awareness in my own small circles.
Abugre: Interesting.
Pardikie: So I'm preparing an article on that.
Abugre: Boobs are part of a woman and they play a critical role in her life.
Pardikie: Definitely
Abugre: Which group of people made you feel bad about your boobs? Men or Women?
Pardikie: Well in S.H.S I couldn't bath with the girls in the open bath house because they will pass silly comments and it was annoying because I saw their imperfections as well but I didn't think it was abnormal.
Abugre : So what has been the misconception about saggy breast ?
Pardikie: Oh most people say that for a young girl to have saggy boobs then she must have been promiscuous.
Abugre: So sad.
Pardikie: Lol.
Abugre: Did you try to do anything to get a perky breast?
Pardikie: Lol not to alter it with surgery or anything besides I can't afford surgery.
However, I tried natural remedies like carrot, cucumber and Shea butter which helps the skin but it doesn't guarantee it becoming perky.
Abugre: Will you have opted for surgery if you had the money ? What happens to the skin?
Pardikie: Never honestly, before, I would give that a second thought if I had the money but for now... I've grown so much in my thinking that I know surgery doesn't solve low self-esteem issues because it is deep rooted in our minds and perception. After the surgery then what? Will you alter ur butt as well ? Then what ? Your nose ?
Oh no, I want to be the lady who was confident and different.
I owe me now to God, my mum and the slumflower for letting me know that I can be everything I want to be, no matter what the world says. That's how people make history.
Abugre: I'm grateful for sharing your story with me.
Pardikie: Lol sure❤ grateful for listening to me as well.
Abugre: Do you have friends who have saggy breast?
Pardikie: No I don't.
Abugre: Alright.
THE END.
What are your thoughts about saggy breast?
Click on the link below to learn more about saggy breast.
https://www.health.com/beauty/how-to-lift-saggy-breasts
